Once you have a final service for your loved one with funeral homes in Mohnton, PA, and then you bury them in the cemetery, you might want to visit that location, think of them, and honor them by decorating their headstone and grave. Here are a few things you will want to think about as you move into the future, and bring your loved one’s memory along with you.
Anything you place at your loved one’s grave is going to be outside in the elements, whatever they might be. If you want them to last so other family will see them, or just so the gravestone looks nice for as long as possible, you want something durable. For example, you might choose silk or fake flowers over real flowers. They won’t wilt and will last longer. There are stores that carry specific decorations for gravesites and you can always check with funeral homes to see what types of things they recommend that are in the durable category.
Weather can determine a lot around the things you might want to place. You don’t want to put something made from paper on the grave the day before it’s going to rain. The paper will likely disintegrate and be ruined in the rainy conditions. You’ll also want to think about heat when it comes to real flowers. They might not be able to stand up against full sun and heat for very long. The weather can help you find the right types of items for your loved one’s grave.
It’s often nice to recognize the season when you choose decorations. Put some flags or flag colors on the grave around Independence day or memorial day and in the fall, decorate with leaf colors and harvest items. The season can help you figure out what types of things will look nice and others walking through the cemetery will enjoy and appreciate the appearance as well.
If your loved one was a faithful sort, you can use things that remind people of their faith. You might get a nice cross with a yard stick on the bottom that you can stick into the ground next to their headstone. You could place a pennant with a Bible verse on it or even leave a Bible on the headstone. Their faith is an important part of how you remember them and the decorations you leave can be as well.
You don’t want to put anything on the grave until you check out the cemetery rules. Some cemeteries, for example, don’t allow you to place anything on the grave, but rather want you to use vases and the headstones for those items. That can make maintenance easier. There might be certain times of the week or month when items are removed as well. Funeral homes in Mohnton, PA can help you understand and go over those rules. Contact Bean Funeral Homes & Cremation Services, Inc. at any time.